Why?
Everytime I write a blog, I’ll try to find something cheerful and fun to talk about. It’s not fun to be classified as an ‘attention seeker/whore’ if you write too much emo posts. Some people may want to seek attention. It’s true I do too, sometimes. But do you realize why? It’s because we want help. We want our problems to be known. Some do it for sympathy. I don’t want sympathy. I write why I’m depressed because I want someone to help me get through it. Not to just get sympathy. Or be mocked.
If you haven’t been in major/serious depression, don’t talk to me as if you have such a great life that you feel sorry for me. It make matters worse. Right now, I feel so alone. I have absolutely no one to make me happy anymore. I’ve attempted suicide years ago. I’ve cut myself to feel good with all the pain I inflicted on myself but I don’t want to go back there. I don’t want to do that anymore. I don’t want more scars to remind me of how useless my life was. How I’ve wasted my life. How pathetic and stupid I was. How I was a nobody.
But sometimes, I have to question myself. Why? Why is it that I can help people, I can dedicate so much of my time caring and solving other people’s problems, listening to their problems, cheering them up and yet there’s absolutely no one that knows behind my smile, my laughter, my cheerful personality that I’m slowly killing myself under all the pretense? There’s no one that can do to me what I’m doing to people – to get better. I just wish I can find someone that understands me, that can be there for me through thick or thin.. I can really tolerate people no matter how shit they treat me, but why can’t people do that to me? Tolerate me? Why do I get blamed at for mistakes I can’t avoid, but I could never blame or be angry at people for mistakes they can avoid?
I guess I’ll be alone. Forever.
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well put. well said.
these feelings cross back and forth behind my smile to. eventually you learn to be self-contained. at the same time doing no evil, and actually doing some good. but doing some good does not make very happy, just greatful happy. can feel taken advantage of, just survival. i don’t know a clever solution, but i have found one that has worked. find a circle or network of new friends. avoid tight friend making situations, go for making 5 freinds per night. in sf / sv a lot of people belong to meetup.com and attend tech meetups. by attending you make loose contacts who suggest more meetups and introduce new people. then one day, i dont know how. the chemistry is just right and you meet that very special friend. happened to me:-)
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